Six Ways to Be a More Positive Person

“The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible.” – Winston Churchill

There’s a reason you don’t read a lot of profiles of successful people who credit their negative outlook for helping them achieve their goals: It doesn’t happen. Negativity is like an anchor that holds us down and keeps us from accomplishment. A positive attitude on the other hand can help you navigate rough waters and reach your destination. Every great thing you do begins with belief – in yourself, your abilities, and your potential for success. That’s the true power of positive thinking. If you want to achieve more goals and experience more personal and professional success, here are six ways you can work to become a more positive person.

“Speaking for myself, I am an optimist – it does not seem to be much use being anything else.” -Winston Churchill

You know the benefits of positive thinking. Now you’re ready to take the next step: Transforming yourself into a more positive thinker. I am daily learning how to be more positive.  I am still learn but here are some practices helping me a positive person.

#1 - Meet with God Daily

Prioritize time with God. The truth shall set you free. Take time each and every day to clear your head. It will give you the opportunity to release your negative thoughts, worries, struggles and hang-ups, so you have more space in your mind for positive thinking. It will also reinvigorate you when you are having a rough day or are in a particularly negative situation.

#2 – Surround Yourself with Positive People

Both positive and negative people can influence your perception. Think about it. Everybody loves being around a positive person. They are invigorating and energizing. Negative people have the opposite effect on those around them. Everybody is drained and frustrated. Make it a point to spend more time – especially in your professional life – with people who have a positive outlook; who enjoy a challenge; who believe every problem has an ideal solution.

#3 – Absorb Encouraging Media

Subscribe to blogs, podcasts and websites of people or organizations issuing content that fuels your passions. Much like negative people, negative information can wear on you and bring you down. And let’s face it, the Internet isn’t exactly a den of positivity – there’s a lot more negative info out there. That’s why you have to do some work. You have to seek out positive sources and consume the majority of your information from them. This will keep you tuned in to the positive and affirm your optimism.

#4 - Control Your Thinking

Thoughts lead to actions. Actions lead to results. Not happy with negative results? Check your thoughts. Take an honest assessment of your thought process. When a new job or challenge arises, are you immediately excited and passionate about tackling it? Or do you begin to gripe about the work and time required? If you skew toward the negative, you need to acknowledge that and make a change. Over time, you can train your mind to focus first and foremost on the positive aspects of any situation.

#5 – Exercise Regularly

Make physical activity a priority. Scientific data has proven exercising helps with attitude and thinking. Try to schedule 3-5 exercise sessions each week. This will help you expel stress and negativity, gain more energy and sleep better. All those things will lead to an increase in positive thinking. But while you should try to participate in regular exercise sessions, don’t beat yourself up if you miss one. The point of exercise is to enhance positivity – not add another negative.

#6 - Consume High Energy Foods

How your body feels has a direct effect on how you think. Treat your body well. Give it the fuel it needs to run properly. Avoid the “three white killers” – salt, sugar and flower. Eat gluten, grain and dairy-free products. Fuel your body five times a day by eating short meals every three hours. You will be amazed at the difference you experience in both body and mind.

Don’t let negativity hold you back in your professional or personal life. Take control of your mind, and work to make positivity a priority. The whole world can open up in front of you when you shine a positive light on all the opportunities surrounding you.

“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.” -Winston Churchill

How do you stay positive in your daily routine?  

 

  • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

    I try to exercise every day, whether it be morning runs or evening walks with my wife. It recharges me and releases the stress of the day.

    I also take in tons of positive content and cut out most TV viewing. This change has had a huge impact on my outlook.

    • http://www.brandongilliland.com/ Brandon

      I agree. My family has been doing this running plan every other day. I have been doing that. When we are not doing that, my brother and I head out on the golf course in the evening when it closes to play a few holes (we walk…not ride in a cart! haha)

      • http://www.timpeters.org/ Tim Peters

        Me too. Love playing golf. Good exercise when you walk.

        • http://www.brandongilliland.com/ Brandon

          Oh yeah!

  • http://www.timpeters.org/ Tim Peters

    I am definitely in the boat in exercising M-F. At least 45 minutes or an hour. Ideally 1.5 hours a day during week. On weekends I try to get in a run.

    Do you have a program you follow?

  • Tommy Pierce

    These 6 exhortations are sound and timeless habits. I attest to these as I have experienced postitive results in my own life personally in application in daily living. Thanks Tim for a reminder as I learned these years ago from other positive people. Truth is timeless and as Harry Truman said, “We can get a lot more done when it does not matter who gets the credit.” I give credit to Tim for this wonderful piece of life-coaching advice.

    Tom Pierce

    • http://www.timpeters.org/ Tim Peters

      Tom – I really appreciate your comments. Thanks for reading.

  • http://www.brandongilliland.com/ Brandon

    So true! All of those points were right on. Meeting God is the most important, but I would say that surrounding yourself with positive people and exercising is very important as well.

    Great stuff!

  • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

    I make sure to daily connect with God and read books I enjoy. You shared a wonderful list.

    • http://www.timpeters.org Tim

      Thanks Dan.

  • Sam

    This is a good list, but I am confused by the inclusion of God on the list. It has been my experience that people who worship “God” are not the only positive people. And which god are you referring to? I have had a hard time choosing lately…